Do you think of yourself as strong and tough? Then you probably don't want to be perceived as weak and wimpy -- to yourself or anyone else. But knowing our disowned parts or "Shadow Selves" can help us find wholesome connections with other people, and with ourselves. Acknowledging our shadow sides and living into our wholeness is what Jesus meant when he said, "Be perfect (whole) as I am perfect (whole)." Jerry Wagner, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, consultant, and faculty member of the Dept of Psychology and Institute of Pastoral Studies at Loyola University, Chicago. To register, go to www.azenneagram.com or contact Mary Bencomo at marybedu@cox.net or 602-266-4228. Park in the south parking lot for easy access to the H building. Questions? Please contact Rev. Andrea Andress, 602-840-8360, ext 142.